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Carrie Helmers
Mar 29, 20184 min read
I Can't Be Bitter, Because I Chose This Life
I am a good girl. I have always prided myself in following the rules, doing what others expect of me, and keeping my word. Maybe that’s...
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Carrie Helmers
Mar 13, 20184 min read
What My Child Sees In Me
Sometimes the greatest blessings can come from the simplest and even messiest moments. That was certainly true for me this morning. I...
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Carrie Helmers
Feb 22, 20184 min read
Who are YOU to Talk? Who are THEY to Act?
“Who does she think she is, anyway?” you hear a friend saying. “She’s not so special. Her marriage is failing/her career is in...
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Carrie Helmers
Feb 9, 20185 min read
Happily Ever After is Hogwash
“And they lived happily ever after.” “He’s my soul mate.” “She’s my dream come true.” “I want the fairy tale.” Do you know how many...
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Carrie Helmers
Feb 2, 20185 min read
Untitled
Can you find the flaw in the Navajo rug pictured below? Trust me, it’s there. It’s what makes the rug so beautiful. Navajo rug weaving...
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Carrie Helmers
Jan 30, 20185 min read
Stop Praising Me for Being Skinny
I’ve gotten more compliments over weight loss than anything else I’ve ever done in my life. Never mind the times in my life that I’ve...
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Carrie Helmers
Jan 23, 20184 min read
How a Broken, Desperate Alcoholic Can Save the World
When I was a little girl I wanted to change the world. I wanted to make the world a better place. I dreamed of getting a job for Make a...
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Carrie Helmers
Jan 16, 20185 min read
You Never Listen to Me!
Have you ever found yourself giving advice to a loved one, only to end up disappointed and frustrated because they didn’t listen to you? ...
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Carrie Helmers
Jan 10, 20184 min read
The Real Reason Many of Us Don't Feel Accepted
If I’ve spent my life trying to be accepted, why have I never felt accepted? As it turns out, it appears as if I’ve been making a giant...
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Carrie Helmers
Dec 11, 20175 min read
Want to Change the World? Be a Monkey
Do you ever wonder if you can make a difference in the world? Truly, really make a difference? I do. I wonder this all the time. I...
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Carrie Helmers
Dec 8, 20175 min read
I'm Right and I Can Prove It!
I have a lengthy set of notes stored in my iPhone that I use specifically to keep track of facts that I can use in fictitious arguments...
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Carrie Helmers
Dec 4, 20173 min read
Maybe the Key to Success is Closing Our Mouths
Have you ever wondered why Oprah is so rich and successful? Oprah Winfrey is known around the world as a thought leader and brilliant...
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Carrie Helmers
Nov 22, 20175 min read
Thank You, Failure, Heartbreak and Pain
When we think of gratitude we often gravitate toward giving thanks to the people and things that have made our lives better – usually the...
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Carrie Helmers
Nov 20, 20176 min read
You Get to Keep the Love
Do you ever fantasize about running into an ex and showing him or her how much happier, sexier, smarter and altogether amazing you are...
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Carrie Helmers
Nov 16, 20175 min read
It's Always Flu Season - And You're Always Contagious
Hey, did you hear? It’s flu season! Lots of people in my community are getting the sniffles, and I have been getting notices from...
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Carrie Helmers
Nov 14, 20176 min read
How to Tap Into the Energy of a Child
Have you ever looked at young child and thought, “I wish I had a fraction of the energy that kid has?” Kids seem to have a never-ending...
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Carrie Helmers
Oct 26, 20175 min read
Why You Should Always Eat the Last Slice of Pizza
I’m a good person. At least, I sure try to be. I admire my parents’ never-ending generosity, patience, kindness and love, and I try to...
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Carrie Helmers
Oct 18, 20176 min read
I Was Wrong vs. You Were Wrong
There is no phrase in the world I hate hearing more than, “I told you so.” It’s awful! It’s like nails on a chalkboard when I hear the...
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Carrie Helmers
Oct 6, 20175 min read
What Label are You Wearing Today?
Sometimes I think we should all walk around with signs around our necks. This is not a unique idea. I remember Jane suggesting this...
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Carrie Helmers
Sep 27, 20176 min read
What if my Son Kinda-Sorta Sucks at Sports?
“I LOVE basketball,” The Professor grandly announced from the confines of his car seat. “I want to basketball again, Mommy! Not just at...
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